The Tale of Three Pumpkins

Is the personality of your child revealed by the design of their pumpkin?  I wonder?

Have fun Trick or Treating!

(Sadly, Paige was babysitting the night we carved pumpkins and for the first time I don't have a picture of something she created...her uncarved pumpkin tells the story of a 13-year-old girl who is too busy :))

Are you Ready for some Football?

Proud dad and son!

Carter's football season ended today with a battle for the league championship.  They got to play in the Dakota Dome and finished in second place out of 47 teams.  Way to go SHARKS!  It was his first year playing in pads and a great experience.  

A Foretaste of Glory Divine

I drive down this road almost daily...and every time I see the vibrant red, orange, green, and golden leaves dancing in the sun my heart is moved.  Why is it that brilliant color stirs the soul, but that God designed yet  one more way to bless us and reveal Himself to us.  If this moves me here on earth, I anticipate with a sense of wonder how the colors will shine in heaven!

Listen to how John describes the Throne Room of God in Revelation:

"There before me was a throne in heaven with someone sitting on it. ³ And the one who sat there had the appearance of jasper and ruby. A rainbow that shone like an emerald encircled the throne." (Revelation 4:2-3)

Here John is, before the Throne of God, and all he can describe is the color!

Glorious!

Aaaahhhhh!

Coffee is the best thing to douse the sunrise with.

~Drew Sirtors

When Morning Gilds the Skies

My Heart Awakening Cries:  May Jesus Christ Be Praised!

There are mornings that I forget to really open my eyes and see.  I forget to really breathe and offer a silent word to God..."This is the day the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it."  I forget to be thankful for these three sleepy kids and a husband who is still in bed.  Rather I start out with the rat wheel in my head spinning endlessly over what needs to be accomplished next.  But then, God will do something so grand as paint the sky gold and purple and pink and blue.  And I will stop...and see...and catch my breath.


Thank you God for a sunrise so breathtaking that there is nothing else I can do but turn to you in praise!

A Mom Like Me

I can be a good mom, a loving mom, a supportive mom, and sometimes an embarrassing mom (by choice, of course, I didn't realize how fun it was to embarrass your children).  Yet, I must admit the title of "cool mom" is a bit elusive and is not attained as frequently as I would like to think.

However, the first weekend after school got out for the summer I pulled the ultimate "cool mom" move and grabbed hold of the title for a day.

I achieved this honor by presenting my girls with TAYLOR SWIFT CONCERT TICKETS for the opening show of her world tour in Omaha, NE.

You must first understand that both Paige and Taryn are both HUGE fans...especially, Taryn.  Since she was 5, Taryn has known all the words to many of her songs.   Check this out!

So the thought of seeing Taylor in person was almost too much to handle.  In fact, Taryn came up to me a few days before the concert and said with much sincerity, arms spread wide in front of her punctuating every word... "I just can't believe that a Mom, like you, and a girl, like me, get to do something like this."  Oh yeah ... a mom, like me.  I'm creeping up in the coolness factor.

We were headed to the concert with our friends Candace, Kylie and Katie.  Concert clothes were picked out and coordinated between Taryn and Katie days beforehand.  The two of them hijacked our phones and started taking pictures of outfits and texting them back and forth days before the concert.  (Yes they are 7!)

The night before the concert we stayed in downtown Omaha.  We walked around Old Town and even took a Cinderella carriage ride over the brick paved streets.  (Once we got started being cool moms we just couldn't stop ourselves.)  However, the most fun of that night came in the form of a huge silver slide built into the side of a hill.  We just happened to walk past the park and saw adults and kids a like sailing down.  Too. Much. Fun.  Especially after some random people handed us a wax paper to slide down on.  Yes, even Candace and I gave that a try.  Aren't we cool?  (Either that or embarrassing as we whooped it up, but I'm sticking with cool.)

As the concert approached, we got ourselves decked out...(note the coordinated outfits and hair flowers)

They were just a little excited!

And ready to rock out!

Then I have to include this picture of Paige and Taryn -- because would you please look at that smile!!  Paige just got her braces off the week before.

We walked to the Qwest Center:

And waited for the concert to begin.

And then the moment Taylor arrived on stage -- it was almost too much!

There she was!  For Real!  Singing her heart out.  It was awesome!  The costumes, the sets, the dancing, and, of course, the music!  The highlight of the night was when she stepped into a floating balcony and floated right past us!

Too cool!

One month in...

So, it's already February!!  I figure this is a good time to look at the list of items that I was inspired to commit to at the beginning of the 2011.  As we began the new year my resolutions seemed to fall into 2 categories....some big picture attitude and outlook adjustments, and some very tiny, but hopefully attainable items that will make me feel more on top of things.  

Here are three very small organizational things I am trying to commit to.

1. Put my hair-dryer away each morning.  I don't know why it is such a bother for me to throw it in the drawer when I am done with it.  It's like I'd rather spend the rest of the day tripping over the cord.  So far I'm doing pretty good on this one! Yeah me!
2. Go to bed with a clean kitchen sink.  I know how it kills some people to go to bed with dirty dishes.  Never been much of a problem for me.  However, I do think I would start the day feeling more on top of things, if I wasn't greeted by a sink full of dishes.  I'm not doing too bad here either for 2011.
3. Get up and shower before I get the kids up each morning.  I've been in the habit of showering after they head off to school, but I'm finding this wastes a lot of my day.  I know I just need to get up earlier.  Moderate success here -- it is just too hard to leave the warmth of my bed on these frigid mornings.

Now for some of my bigger picture items.  (It's actually good that I am reclaiming these a month into the year lest I forget what I determined to do.)

1. Celebrate the small victories -- such as each time I choose to smile at my kids and let something pass rather than over react.  I know I'm not going to respond with patience all the time, but I'll keep trying and celebrate each moment I do.
2. Start concentrating on what I can do for someone else (my husband, my kids, my friends) rather than what I wish they were doing for me.  In other words -- stop looking at what I can get and rather what I can give.
3. At least once a day -- actually look at my children while they are talking to me and give them my full attention.  (Again -- small goal..."once a day".  Am I pathetic?)
4. Don't let self-doubt keep me from trying something new.
5. Become a better listener.   I was watching a training video at the beginning of the year and it talked about how people who are bad listeners are so anxious to make their own point that they are usually just waiting for their turn to talk rather than listening to the one they are with and are actually having a conversation with themselves in their own head.  Sadly, I thought..."I do that."  So again with the small goal...I would like to be more self-aware and catch myself during one of those internal conversations and turn it off and really listen. 
6. Embrace our hectic life-style.  Life is simply busy, it's where we are at right now and it's what we have chosen.  So rather than complain I'm choosing to enjoy!
7. Accept the unpredictable.  Never plan to have a regular schedule or accomplish something on a regular basis.
8. Live a life "full of grace and truth."  No small task here.  I pray that with God's help each passing year will bring me closer to living this out.

So there you have the big and the small of it.  My recipe for a few steps in becoming the more attentive, content, organized, happy Jen!