Monday, December 31, 2012

2012 Grateful List

Have you ever driven across the state of South Dakota?  Well let me tell you...between Rapid City and Sioux Falls on Interstate 90...there ain't much to look at.



But that's o.k. because during the boredom of this drive on December 24, after a delightful weekend in the Black Hills, I took time to reflect on the year and actually slowed my brain down long enough to think about writing on my blog again.

Cal was in the back seat with the kids watching one episode after another of the TV series "Chuck" which Carter had received on DVD as an early Christmas gift.  (Probably not an entirely age appropriate choice for our youngest darling, but the the laptop decided to quit and she couldn't watch her Barbie movie anymore...so what else could a girl do??  Please don't judge me, I already stress about the amount of iPod, iPhone, iPad, Twitter, Instagram, FaceBook, Snapchat, texting, Netflix time that we attempt to monitor and control.  It is simply exhausting trying to stay on top of it all.  We are doing our best with momentary lapses. :)

I do worry about losing the good ole' days of I packed my Sister's Suitcase  and The Alphabet Game that I tolerated on long journeys as a child.  Although, earlier in the day, we did have a rip roaring game of Name that Tune - Christmas Carols going.  So I figure if we can somehow mix all the new technology together with classic car games, board games, books, and plain old real conversation....we might be able to raise 3 semi-adjusted 21st century children.  (And, honestly, I greatly enjoyed the peace and quiet of my driving stint.)

So in my reflections of the year this is what I know to be true...we are blessed and we are grateful!

Grateful List for 2012:

1.  A positive career move for Cal at the beginning of the year to work for Fishback Financial.

2.  A miraculous surgery for Cal's mom to repair a shattered femur.  She had to spend three months in a wheel chair putting no wait on her leg, but she made it through that time and is now walking with a walker again.  The surgeon who performed the 5-hour surgery said he was doubtful she would ever walk again  God is so good!
Thanksgiving 2012
3. Three kids...in three schools...on one campus.  A high-schooler, a middle-schooler and an elementary student...all at Sioux Falls Christian.  We are thankful for a smooth transition to highschool and middle school for Paige and Carter.  And we are thankful Taryn is still in elementary because it's nice to have one kid who loves to have mom and dad eat lunch with her and go on field trips.
They still tolerate the first day of school picture :)

Christmas 2012
4.  More opportunities to share God's love with lost and lonely teens and young adults through my work at  the Dawson McAllister HopeLine.  Every Sunday night I am privileged to work alongside wonderful volunteers who show up to answer phone calls and one-on-one chats with kids who are desperately reaching out for HOPE.

5.  A driver's license for Paige at the age of 14.5. Originally, I was not sure if I was a fan of her getting her license at such a young age in this crazy state...but it didn't take long for me to be VERY grateful that I didn't have to drive her to and from every volleyball practice, basketball practice, early marching band rehearsals, youth group and countless social events.

Oh boy!


6.  A great celebration with my family as my dad turned 70.   The legacy of Christian parents handing down their faith generation to generation is a gift I appreciate more every year.
Doing what the Schelhaas' do best -- feasting!
7. Family memories created on vacations to Florida, Chicago, Pierre, SD (must get in a fishing trip) and the Black Hills.

Cocoa Beach in February

Chicago Skyline - June

Gino's East before the Cubs Game
Bragging rights for the biggest fish! (August)

After a day of skiing. (December)

Cold day at Rushmore


8. No concussions or broken bones for Carter -- this mom is yet to come around to being excited about her son playing tackle football...but he had a great, injury-free season and is now enjoying basketball and middle-school drum-line.

9.  The twirling, cartwheeling, jumping joy of Taryn.  We think she might be spending more of her life up-side-down in various dance/gymnastic moves than right-side up at this point. The girl just has to dance!

Spring Recital

10. Above all I am grateful that we rest assured in the knowledge of a Savior who loves us so deeply that he entered this world to dwell among us and prepare a way for us to live with Him eternally.

May you all have a blessed New Year!


Jen